I used to be very sexually active but now I have got with a boyfriend that was in prison for 20 years and whenever he got out now all he does is play with his self he don't never let me be involved and so I have to play with my toy I know it don't seem like very much a relationship but if you love them I guess you'll go through thick and thin for them but I've been wanting to play with my swing but for some reason I can't get nobody to play with me